Nice Guys Aren’t Always Good Men

To every heartbroken girl, every crushed lady, every disappointed woman, every deceived and manipulated girl, every pure and good-hearted woman who believed too much,
there’s a big difference between a nice guy and a good man.
It sounds the same, but the reality is – there’s an exceptional difference between these two.
I once was exactly where you are now . I let myself be fooled by a nice guy in the disguise of a real, good man. I couldn’t have been more wrong.

So, that is why it is essential for me to explain to you the main difference between those two. I want to use my experience to help you avoid these people.

A nice guy is charming, irresistible, insatiable. He will tell you everything you want to hear. And he won’t hesitate to lie to you when it feels convenient to him. Especially when there’s something ugly that he desperately wants to hide.
But, a good man will always speak the truth. He won’t be afraid to hurt your feelings by telling you the truth because he genuinely believes that integrity and honesty are more important than comfort. Those are values that last forever.

It is simple.
A nice guy is afraid of being rejected and he does everything in his power to gain validation, while a good man knows exactly how much he’s worth and doesn’t give a damn whether he’s rejected or accepted.

A nice guy will seem like a nice guy until he reveals his real intentions and tries to change who you are. He will try to modify your personality and mold you into a person he can see himself with. A good man , on the other hand, will not only respect your individuality but he will also love you for your wild peculiarity.

A nice guy will miss your calls and avoid your messages, but a good man will come at your door in the middle of the night and surprise you with a pizza and two bottles of beer.

A nice guy will treat you like a girl of convenience. He will show you just a little to get you hooked and then he’ll disappear when you least expect it, knowing that you’ll always be there waiting for him.

But, a good man… Oh, a good man will never leave you hanging, not knowing what’s going on between you two. He will make sure to let you know what’s in his heart. He’ll devote himself to you. He’ll open the gates of his world to you. He’ll welcome you to stay forever.

A nice guy won’t apologize when he’s wrong. He won’t take responsibility for his actions. Instead, he’ll find it easier to put the blame on someone else. A good man , on the other hand, admits his mistakes. He knows when he’s wrong and he knows just what to do to make things right again.
A nice guy will get you laid, but a good man will love you forever.

A nice guy is accustomed to an easy life. He won’t bother to work hard and struggle when he has a shortcut. That is why he’ll usually pick the easier way out. No muss, no fuss.

But, a good man, he will be 100% committed to his self-growth and his development. He will finish the work because it is the only way to ever achieve his goals. A good man knows that in life, there are no shortcuts.

More importantly, a good man won’t be concerned with labels and etiquettes like the nice guy. He will care about values.
So, please, learn the difference between these two, don’t settle for less than you deserve, and don’t you ever let them trick you!

Nice guys aren’t always good men!