My Boyfriends Won't Like To Marry Me ........

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Help me out.......................
After all my race dating 6 young men's in relationship,being caring,kind & faithful. non of them want to marry me,they said am not a wife material. Is that my fault ???
Am just too confused !!!!!!!
MAY BE YOU CAN HELP OUT.....................

Kelly Clarkson Thwarted In Bid To Keep Jane Austen Ring

 

US singer Kelly Clarkson has been thwarted in her bid to take a ring which once belonged to Jane Austen out of the UK.

She bought the turquoise and gold ring for £152,450 at auction last year, outbidding the Jane Austen's House Museum.
Culture minister Ed Vaizey put an export bar on it until 30 September.
After worldwide donations the museum has since raised enough money to buy the ring and its bid has been accepted.
Contributions to the Bring the Ring Home campaign, set up by the museum in Jane Austen's former home, included an anonymous donation of £100,000 in August.
The museum, in Chawton, Hampshire, was given until December to raise a further £49,000.
Mary Guyatt, curator of the museum, said it had been "stunned by the generosity and light-footedness" of those who had supported the bid

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THE HEROES OF 2013 MTN PROJECTFAME 6................

It's Official! Our first grandchild!! Sweet Stella

Don moen, the king of gospel singers and wife welcome there there first 
grandchild "SWEET STELLA" into the world.
we celebrate with you sir..........................

I Will Cry Until He's Dead Or Healed

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MUST READ STORY •<
I'LL CRY UNTIL HE'S DEAD OR
HEALED.
This is the story
of my dear son-from Janet
It all began when my dad forced
me to marry i man i
was not pleased with. The man
was a
drunkured,
and he was poorly behaved, one
day when i was
pregnant, he fought with me
and he threw
me down,
my belly went ahead to the
ground. I was 8 months
pregnant with less than two
weeks to give
birth. I felt alot of pain and in
the morning i
went home to my mum and they took me to the
hospital where
i stayed
until i gave birth.
At the day i gave birth, the
doctor came and examined me.
He told me that
i'm remaining with
three days to give birth but he
said i have
developed a complication in the womb, so the
baby is to be
removed in order to save my
life.
I asked if my baby will be safe,
but he told me that
the baby might even be dead.
I was operated, the baby boy
was removed
but he
was so weak even to breath and he was put
on oxygen and luckly enough he
survived.
My uterus was damaged and it
was removed
so i had no chances of giving birth again.
I never got back to my husband
and i decided
to
look at my world-my boy. I
educated him with my
little income until he graduated
two years
back. He
got a Job and has been working
getting some good
money.
On the 18th of last June, he called me
to come in
town that
he wanted to give me a gift in advance for
women's
day. I was filled with joy and i
was to go there
on 20th of June. On that fateful day, i
called his
phone but
he didn't pick. I went early in
the morning
reached his home where he stayed found
his room
open. I
didn't hesitate but rushed inside
anxious to
see my son and his "gift" only to find
him lying on the
carpet
almost dead. Everything in his
house was
stolen . I hurriedly ran out called the police,
hired a car took
him to the hospital.
Since then, he has been in
comma and has
never opened his eyes. He has been
put on life
support
machines. I have been crying
lying next to
him and i think the day he'll be announced
dead i'll die
next to him. Coz he is the only hope i
have my only
son. Please pray for my son so that
he doesn't die
"May God Heal ur Son Janet"
type AMEN if you were touched.
Please don't scroll without typing
Amen

Count Down To Anniversary: Are We Celebrating In Strike

 

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Nigerian students are heavily pounding on both the federal govt and the asuu teams if they 

are going to celebrate the anniversary in strike???

STUDENT CONCLUSION: Federal govt should expect the UNEXPECTED !!!!!

At Least 37 Killed in Pakistan Blast

A massive car bomb explosion in Pakistan has killed at least 37 people, including women and children, and wounded at least 75 others.  This is the third deadly bombing in a week to occur in the northwestern city of Peshawar, killing a total of more than 140 people.    

Pakistani authorities say the bomb exploded Sunday during morning rush hours in Pesahawar’s oldest, Qissa Khawani, bazaar and the blast inflicted widespread destruction.

Witnesses reported that it also caused many shops and nearby vehicles to go up in flames.

10 Things Happy People Do Differently

Think being happy is something that happens as a result of luck, circumstance, having money, etc.? Think again.

Happiness is a mindset. And if you’re looking to improve your ability to find happiness, then check out these 10 things happy people do differently.
1. Happy people find balance in their lives.Folks who are happy have this in common: they’re content with what they have, and don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying and stressing over things they don’t. Unhappy people do the opposite: they spend too much time thinking about what they don’t have. Happy people lead balanced lives. This means they make time for all the things that are important to them, whether it’s family, friends, career, health, religion, etc
2. Happy people abide by the golden rule.
You know that saying you heard when you were a kid, “Do unto others as you would have them do to you.” Well, happy people truly embody this principle. They treat others with respect. They’re sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of other people. They’re compassionate. And they get treated this way (most of the time) in return.

3. Happy people don’t sweat the small stuff.

One of the biggest things happy people do differently compared to unhappy people is they let stuff go. Bad things happen to good people sometimes. Happy people realize this, are able to take things in stride, and move on. Unhappy people tend to dwell on minor inconveniences and issues, which can perpetuate feelings of sadness, guilt, resentment, greed, and anger.

4. Happy people take responsibility for their actions.

Happy people aren’t perfect, and they’re well aware of that. When they screw up, they admit it. They recognize their faults and work to improve on them. Unhappy people tend to blame others and always find an excuse why things aren’t going their way. Happy people, on the other hand, live by the mantra:

“There are two types of people in the world: those that do and those that make excuses why they don’t

5. Happy people surround themselves with other happy people.
One defining characteristic of happy people is they tend to hang out with other happy people. Misery loves company, and unhappy people gravitate toward others who share their negative sentiments. If you’re struggling with a bout of sadness, depression, worry, or anger, spend more time with your happiest friends or family members. Chances are, you’ll find that their positive attitude rubs off on you.
6. Happy people are honest with themselves and others.
People who are happy often exhibit the virtues of honesty and trustworthiness. They would rather give you candid feedback, even when the truth hurts, and they expect the same in return. Happy people respect people who give them an honest opinion.
7. Happy people show signs of happiness.
This one may sound obvious but it’s a key differentiator between happy and unhappy people. Think about your happiest friends. Chances are, the mental image you form is of them smiling, laughing, and appearing genuinely happy. On the flip side, those who aren’t happy tend to look the part. Their posture may be slouched and you may perceive a lack of confidence.
8. Happy people are passionate.

Another thing happy people have in common is their ability to find their passions in life and pursue those passions to the fullest. Happy people have found what they’re looking for, and they spend their time doing what they love.
9. Happy people see challenges as opportunities.

Folks who are happy accept challenges and use them as opportunities to learn and grow. They turn negatives into positives and make the best out of seemingly bad situations. They don’t dwell on things that are out of their control; rather, they seek solutions and creative ways of overcoming obstacles.
10. Happy people live in the present.

While unhappy people tend to dwell on the past and worry about the future, happy people live in the moment. They are grateful for “the now” and focus their efforts on living life to the fullest in the present. Their philosophy is:

There’s a reason it’s called “the present.” Because life is a gift.

So if you’d like to bring a little more happiness into your life, think about the 10 principles above and how you can use them to make yourself better....cheers!!!!!

How To Stop Being Angry

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We all know people who get angry easily. The ones that lash out either verbally or physically and are seemingly out-of-control. What’s interesting is that most of the time, they regret acting the way they did. They wish they had more self-control but they just can’t help it. It seems impossible to change. They see their anger as a genetic flaw that they have to put up with along with the negative consequences that inevitably follow their expressions of anger.

They are completely wrong.

Anger is not a genetic flaw and they don’t have to put up with it. Anger can be managed — but not by just breathing deeply and saying “Woo-Sah”.

The technique I’m about to introduce to you can be used anytime and anywhere. It can be used with people of all ages and the great thing is that it really works.

So how do you do it? How can you stop being angry (or teach someone else to stop being so angry)?

Well, there are two ways:
You can choose to vent your frustrations; or
You can use my “soon-to-be proposed” method.

Venting takes the energy out of your anger but the anger can always build up again. I’m going to show you how to stop being angry by looking at what your anger is telling you.

The message your anger is sending is that one of your standards, values or important beliefs is being violated by you or someone else.

Take a minute to think back to the last time you were angry. Explore the situation and what your anger is telling you. Which strong belief is being violated?

After you’ve figured out the belief that is being violated, now it is time to work some “magic” and diffuse your anger once and for all. It’s fast, simple, and effective.

You just need to adopt one new belief:

Your beliefs are yours only. Not anyone else’s.

No one ever decided that your standards should be the ones that everyone follows. Your “map” is not the territory. It’s just your perception of the territory. When you take on this belief, your standards are no longer being violated because you’ve allowed other people to live by their own rules, not your rules. When your standards are not being violated, you have lost the reason to be angry.

This has been one of the most powerful realizations in my life.

Let me tell you a true story…

* * *
One day I was driving along a highway in New York City when I was cut off by a young driver in a mid-size sedan. Automatically, I started to “create” a story that he was this rude and disrespectful person that should be taught a lesson. One that I am normally glad to teach. But instead of chasing him down and putting both our lives in danger, I remembered that being angry meant that one of my beliefs had been violated.


I realized that the driver violated my standard that people should respect others especially when driving. Then I thought, what if he wasn’t disrespecting me. What if he was rushing home because his pregnant wife’s water just broke. Would I still be angry?

No, I wouldn’t.

What’s interesting is that both of these scenarios are equally likely. There is really no way for me to confirm.

So which belief will diffuse my anger?

“I hope his wife is alright,” I told myself and I continued the drive to my friend’s house.

What methods do you use to control your anger? What do you find most effective? For those who try this method, let me know how it worked for you.

Fashola Apologise To Ndigbo For Deportation

Lagos — After weeks of intense controversies over the repatriation of some Igbo in Lagos state to Onitsha in Anambra state, the Lagos State Governor Mr Babatunde Fashola yesterday tendered apology to all aggrieved persons.

Fasola tendered his apology while speaking at the 25th anniversary of a pan-Igbo socio-political group, Aka Ikenga held in Lagos yesterday.

Fashola said his government policy was misunderstood by a section of the people and giving political coloration to the incident.

He said he bore no grudges against the Igbo people as speculated.

"Our fore fathers have always had in place a robust relationship with Ndigbo.

"We have built a relationship based on tolerance, mutual respect and trust. That relationship was started by our ancestors," he said.

"There are those who clearly misrepresented the action taken the way they wanted it. To those people, I owe an explanation on what has happened and that was partly why I am here today. If those people have misunderstood me or action taken by our government, here today and publicly, I am offering them unreserved apology," Fashola said

The Effects Of Abortion

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Abortion is the knowing destruction of the life of an unborn child. But this is only part of the story as abortion also hurts the woman involved. Abortion affects women physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

When an abortion is performed on a woman, she becomes subject to many physical complications.

Blood loss during the procedure causes diversion of blood flow to various organs and can result in shock. When the canal of the cervix is dilated, the insides of the uterus, fallopian tubes, and the abdominal cavity are exposed to invasion by bacteria. Abdominal infection can cause peritonitis and abscess formation. Severe hemorrhage often follows an abortion. Instruments can perforate the uterus causing injury, infection, and bleeding to internal organs.

Deaths from abortions, although rare, are usually from heavy bleedingfrom complications with anesthesia. Women who have abortions increase their risk of breast cancer by 50 percent, according to a new study in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute. Abortion of a first pregnancy interrupts the natural growth process of the breast, leaving millions of cells at a high risk.

It has been found that future pregnancy failure is increased by 45 percent with just one previous abortion. Other complications are a greater risk of premature births, tubal pregnancy, sterility, and damage to the cervix. As a result of abortion, women suffer many physical injuries.

Not only do these women bear physical side effects, but they also suffer many emotional side effects.

Among these are depression, long-term grief reactions, anger, sexual dysfunction, guilt, flashbacks, memory repression, suicidal ideas, and difficulty keeping close relationships.

ASUU Strike: Senate Calls for Lasting Solution

 

Senator David Mark, has asked the federal and state legislators, especially those in the committess of education, to look for lasting solutions to the ongoing strike embarked upon by the Academic Staff Union of Universities, ASUU.

The Senate president said: “the persistent strike actions by ASUU have had tremendous impact on the quality of our education system. It is becoming necessary for us to initiate a legislative solution to the problem.”
Mark was speaking yesterday at the conference of National Assembly and 36 state houses of assembly committees on the theme “Transforming Nigerian Education Sector” and was represented by Solomon Ganiyu, the minority whip of the Senate.
“The job situation in the country is not what we want it to be,” he added. “The universities have to ensure they pass out marketable graduates that can stand the work environment and add value where required.”
He called on the universities, to re-work their curriculum, so that Nigerian graduates can have necessary skills to be self-employed, while also calling on the private sector to step up too, as the government cannot fund the sector adequately

Eating Fish May Not Help With Memory, Thinking Skills

 

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Fish may not be brain food after all, a new study suggests.
Older women with higher blood levels of omega-3 fatty acids did not have any better memory or thinking skills after six years than women with lower levels, says research out Wednesday.
Fish high in omega-3 fatty acids include salmon, tuna, swordfish, mackerel and sardines. A diet rich in fish has been touted as a way to improve brain health, but research results on its effectiveness have been mixed.

ASUU’s strike: Ondo University Threatens To Pull out

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As the crisis between the federal government and the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) continues unabated, the Vice-Chancellor of Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba-Akoko (AAUA), in Ondo State, Prof. Femi Mimiko today threatened to call his students back to school if the two parties involved fails to resolve before the end of this month.
Mimiko, who spoke with reporters at World Pharmacists Day held in Akure, the State Capital said the management has strategic plans to recall the students back to campus in the next few days.
He stressed that the ongoing ASSU strike had affected the institution’s calendar, which for so many years has remained uninterrupted.
The Vice Chancellor noted that there was an ongoing consultation between the workers and the management on the needs to resume work, if the strike continues.
His words, “interruption of academic calendars is one of the problems we face with regards to this strike action. As you all noted, we manage to run the university for the past four years on an uninterrupted calendar. We are particularly concern about this strike because our academic calendar has been affected.

“We are hoping that ASUU will do the needful to call off the strike as speedily as possible. We have come into the conclusion that in our own interest as a state university, we must begin to find a way to bring our students back. So we are hoping that the strike will be called off before the end of the month, otherwise we may begin to take some steps that will enable us bring our students back to the campus.

This Man Makes $75 An Hour By Cuddling With Strangers

26-year-old stripper-turned-entrepreneur Travis Sigley earns a living cuddling with strangers.
According to the New York Daily News, Sigley charges $75 an hour for “cuddle therapy” sessions where he spoons with random people for extended periods of time, teaching them to be more comfortable with touching others in non-sexual ways.

The answer to these insecurities is Sigley’s private cuddling sessions, held in a cozy room on San Francisco’s Fillmore Street.
Sigley launched his business four years ago, around the same time he quit wearing shirts because “he just doesn’t see the need to.”
While working as a stripper, Sigley soon discovered that clients who paid to take him into the back room were doing so not for sex, but just for chatting.