Can Christians Use Sex Toys?

Have tried to clarify this SEX TOY of a thing to so many ladies and they believe i know nothing about sex and the hunger it brought.
Now let's discuss this topic as a "CHRISTIAN" can you use it?

i don't want to be scriptural here, fornication is not good and adultery is a sin. so many house wives complain about how bad there husband are unable to satisfy them during sex and they don't want to engage in secret relationship, because it can ruin there marriage and is a sin to God.

Means Sex Toy will safe your Marriage.....

i took my time in researching about this sex toy of a thing very well, remember i told you am not going to be scriptural on this angle, cause is a reality and made to be understand topic.

IN MY OPINION:

I believe that God created sex to connect us on three levels: the physical, the emotional, and the spiritual.
And sex works best when all three are involved! That doesn’t mean that every time you make love the earth has to move, but the sum total of your sex life should connect you not just physically, but spiritually as well.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with the physical side of sex. Sex is supposed to feel great, but when we emphasize only that, sex can lose its power to really bind us together. So I’m worried that if people get too into sex toys they will thus get too into chasing the next orgasm, rather than expressing love.
Most sex toys are really masturbatory in nature. They help you have an orgasm. Even if he’s the one using it on you, then, you’re having a parallel sexual experience, you’re not really making love to your husband.
Now I don’t actually think there’s anything wrong with parallel experiences as a whole. If  he, for instance, were to tease you non stop for thirty minutes and then bring you to orgasm while you’re doing nothing to him, I think that’s great. So I’m not against the concept. What I am against is that some people start using sex toys so much when they make love that you feel like it’s the sex toy that’s making you feel good, and not your husband.
So if, with sex toys, you start to rely on them, whether you’re together or apart, you lose some of the closeness that sex can bring.
Most guys aren’t that big. And they can’t vibrate like that. Do you really want to get reliant on something your husband can never be for an orgasm? When I get asked at a seminar recently, “can Christians use vibrators”, I always worry a bit, because I’ve received some emails from wives saying, “I can orgasm with a vibrator, but not with my husband.” We train our bodies to respond to the sex toy, and then when we’re with someone who isn’t that big, or who doesn’t vibrate, the sensation isn’t strong enough to bring us over the edge. So, yes, vibrators can make you more orgasmic. But they can also make you LESS orgasmic with your husband.
I need to read your opinion on this topic, CAN CHRISTIANS USE SEX TOYS???
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